This post is part of the A to Z Challenge. Each post will be associated with a letter of the alphabet with the theme ‘Today, at work…’.
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Today, at work, I discovered that most of the people in my building has no clue about elevator etiquette. Zero.
Example #1: In the elevator going down, the elevator filled up and I happened to be at the front, next to the buttons. We stopped on the 4th floor and about 5 people shoved past me without any “excuse me” uttered, to get out. What’s with people and “excuse me”???
Example #2: From the third floor, I entered a lift which was mostly full and couldn’t reach the buttons to select the floor I wanted to get to. So, from the back, I said “Could you press 13 please?” And no one did. No one. So, I repeated my request again and then finally, someone did. Though it looked forced as the person had to look up from their phone to press the button. But just in time because by then the elevator had passed the 10th floor.
Example #3: When the elevator is not quite full, yet no one tried to make room when I entered and I attempted to not invade anyone’s personal space by making room for myself in the sparsely filled elevator. And everyone else still held their ground.
Example #4: Burps and belches. Which smells. In the confined space of the elevator. And no “excuse me” or an “oops”
Though this last bit isn’t really elevator etiquette-related, it still bugs the heck out of me. It’s when someone gets onto the lift and presses the button to next floor going up or down. Use the stairs, people!
Which lift rules would you like people to follow?
Some manners, eh? I don’t use elevators very often, but when I do, yes, I run into the occasional etiquette-less person.
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Hello Silvia – Truly, I’m perplexed as to why people aren’t more courteous. Thanks for stopping by! And happy A to Z! 🙂
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Definitely with you on all of those except the non-ettiquette one that bugs you… hubby has bad knees and I sometimes have a bad back, you wouldn’t be able to tell this by looking at us walking, but if it’s bad we have to use the lift to go one floor up/down… otherwise we do use the stairs 🙂
Mars xx
@TrollbeadBlog from
Curling Stones for Lego People
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Hi Mars – Of course, if you can’t climb up the stairs due to health reasons, it’s fine to use the lift but the ones that I’ve encountered who’ve used to lift to move from one floor to the next one are the young folks who’re fit as fiddles 😦
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Yes, I concur, only no elevators at my work place or anywhere else in the town I live in. Not one. There is a rather open lift going in at the church but it is for folk in wheelchairs. I don`t miss elevators though. Not a bit.
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Hi Jan – I try to use the stairs whenever possible but my office is on the 13th floor so I take the lift. I have walked up to my floor though from the ground level. That was when I wasn’t in a hurry ;P
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Constant clearing of the throat, coughing and sneezing without covering their mouth or nose. We are in a tight space and I would prefer you keep your germs to yourself.
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Oh gosh yes. I’ve unfortunately been in the lift with those types of perpetrators too… 😦
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Really. I’m more than happy to move out of someone’s way when they have to get off. It takes a little more effort now that I’m on a cane, but I’ll do what I can if people would just be nice and ask.
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Hi John, It’s automatic for me to make room for people when they enter the lift but it isn’t for many others in my building. Why???? LOL
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I think it’s they didn’t have parents that taught them that.
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I’d like people to wait until I get out of the lift before pushing their way in.
Aneeta from
How to Tell a Great Story
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Hi Aneeta – this happens when I’m trying to get onto public transit too. People barge in before others have a chance to leave! Grrr…
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Let people get off before you get on! So simple, yet seems to be the most difficult concept!
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True Jenny. How can this be ingrained into folks???
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Well seriously, people…what’s with your normal common sense and courtesy I say! These are basic courtesies that people must follow! I feel rather put off by this too. You could add: Smile at folks you meet virtually everyday on the elevator!
Cheers,
@KalaRavi16 from
Relax-N-Rave
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Yep, I do that! 😀
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Yes Elevators are for comfort not for “bad health ”
So I really hate people who use it just for silly reasons …
Very thoughtful post .
@dixita011 from
Cafenined words
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Thanks dixita. There are times when I opt to use the stairs from the 3rd to the 13th floor just to avoid the lift drama LOL
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Haha
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I’m with Kalaravi. This has little to do with elevator etiquette and a lot to do with basic manners, courtesy, respect and, yes, common sense. Sadly, the cult of me-first has spread its tentacles too far into every aspect of our lives.
Keith Channing A-Zing from http://keithkreates.com
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Hi Keith – That’s true. Common courtesy is uncommon. And the worse part is that when I point it out, the other person gets angry!
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There is far too much anger these days; but that is a whole new subject to wrestle with.
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You Apltly pointed out the follies dear, it’s high time to raise our voice and get it corrected …
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Yes, Roma. I’ve been silently enduring it for a while but the dam is about to burst LOL
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a very relative post that!
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Thanks Karan!
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I think manners in general have gone by the wayside. Today’s youth have little or no regard for others. Thankfully, I live in an area where most people are still a bit courteous.
Mary
#AtoZChallenge E is for Elle
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Hi Mary – True, manners in general are deteriorating. I have lost count of the number of times when I enter a building and the person ahead of me just leaves the door to nearly slam in my face instead of holding it open for a while until I get to it 😦
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Amusing read and most times true unfortunately
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Thanks Ginni. Yep, all true! 😀
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Fabulous post! Wry humour. Of course I would love to follow all rules. Also, people should greet each other, instead of pretending the other is invisible.
[@samantha_rjsdr] from
Whimsical Compass
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Hi Ramya – I generally give a small nod or a smile to the other people when I enter the lift. I’ve also seen folks who’re looking at their phone as they enter.
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I found humor in this post, but there was also a lot of truth to it as well.
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I’m glad to know that I’m not the only encountering these elevator-related drama ;P
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I would have screamed if no one pressed 13! “Aaaaahhhhh I’m going to be stuck in here forever!” Haha just kidding 🙂 Next time, if you’re not getting your way, I suggest you burp and belch.
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Hi M: If no one pressed 13, then I would have no choice but to just shove everyone to reach the button LOL
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you’ve hit all my pet peeves on elevators in one go.
i’m usually the one clinging to the corner because 1) i hate elevators, but i am too lazy to walk up a thousand stairs and 2) i have an irrational fear that it will plummet to bottom of the shaft.
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Hi djinnia – I’ve actually been in a lift when it just stopped and lurched downwards for a bit. That put me off lifts for a while.
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seriously people need to stop burping in elevators!!
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Take the stairs indeed! You have to be willing to act with common courtesy when sharing a space so small.
Kanyla at The Girl Who Wrote it All Down
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I probably will need to print that out and stick it onto the wall in the lift 🙂
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I really enjoyed your post. These days I don’t much travel in elevators but I can’t get over that no one pushed the button when you asked.
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Hi Kathryn – Maybe those near the buttons thought the other would push the button and hence no one did for a long time. Typical…
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I never thought about elevator etiquette before, but yes, some people can be offly rude. Oh well. //fellow challenger
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Hi Natalia – Well, my previous workplaces didn’t have elevators and I wasn’t concerned about elevator etiquette until my new workplace had one and it bothered me a lot! LOL
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That is so bad and mean! Yeeeks!
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Yep, it was!
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Fortunately I rarely contend with having to take elevators. I agree about going up the stairs when it’s only one or two floors. I need the exercise so I don’t mind at all.
Arlee Bird
A to Z Challenge Co-host
Tossing It Out
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I agree with you Arlee, if you’re healthy and able, the stairs is always the better option if it’s just a floor or two 🙂
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